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And if the answer is yes, for the love of God, don't ask "what" they are. ' A question I get asked every week of my life, often every day.For every person trying to decipher just what makes you look so "exotic," there's someone who acts like dating someone of mixed heritage will make them more interesting. It just makes them, at best, racially insensitive, and at worst an asshole., nearly 9% of couples are of different races, nearly twice as many as there were in 2002.
In 2009, showed that women of all races overwhelmingly wanted to date people of their own race, while non-black men didn't want to date black women and non-Asian women weren't interested in dating Asian men.
When OKCupid crunched the numbers again in 2014, not much had changed: Though more people said they were , writer Anthony Berteaux wrote that many Grindr profiles in his area featured derogatory terms about race — for instance, referring to men of Indian or East Asian descent as "curry" and "rice." That type of racial fetishization applied doubly to people who identified as multiracial.
"My typical response is to ask why, and then it's usually confirmed that they have a weird fetish, so I call them out and then block them." These fascinations with "exotic" beauty are intended to be compliments or at least proof of interest. "Calling [someone] exotic assumes she is essentially an other and somehow different, though the connotation is not particularly positive," clinical psychologist Goal Auzeen Saedi wrote for.
Instead, they usually end up making mixed race people feel they're nothing more than fodder for a genetic guessing game of "what are you? "While many intend it as a compliment, when you really break it down, an exotic beauty is not the same as a true beauty.
According to mixed-race Grindr user Ben*, 23, when people say they're looking exclusively for, say, Asians or Latinos, it's often in a fetishizing way, as if the users are looking for a race and not a person.